A Community for Adoptive Parents

Transform Your Family's Journey WITHOUT Feeling Isolated or Overwhelmed

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Have you...

Read countless parenting books, but none of them seem to address the unique challenges of raising a child with complex trauma?

Felt isolated and misunderstood, even by well-meaning friends and family?

Been exhausted by constantly putting out fires?

Found yourself walking on eggshells in your own home, never sure what might trigger the next meltdown or crisis?

Felt guilty for the moments when parenting feels more like a burden than a joy?

These challenges aren't just daily inconveniences – they're eroding the very foundation of your family life.

The constant stress is impacting your health, your relationships, and your ability to be the parent you want to be. You're stuck in survival mode, with no clear path to the thriving, joyful family life you envisioned.


But here's the truth: You're not alone, and it doesn't have to be this way.

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Imagine being able to parent with confidence and joy, without feeling isolated or overwhelmed

When you're living a transformed family life where you're no longer just surviving, but thriving, you can:

  • Wake up feeling refreshed and hopeful, equipped with strategies to handle whatever the day may bring
  • Respond to your child's behaviors with empathy instead of frustration
  • Connect with your child on a deeper level
  • Navigate challenging moments with calm confidence, knowing you have a toolkit of effective techniques at your fingertips
  • Rediscover joy in your family life
  • Watch your other children and your marriage flourish as balance is restored to your home


This isn't just a dream – it's the reality our members are living every day. With the right support, education, and community, you can transform your family's story from one of struggle to one of resilience and joy.

Are you ready to write the next chapter in your family's journey?

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INTRODUCING

The Real Child Community

Empowering adoptive parents to nurture healing, restore balance, and rediscover joy

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When you join us, you can expect to:

  • Gain confidence in your parenting approach with trauma-informed strategies
  • Foster deeper connections with your child, even during challenging times
  • Restore balance to your family life, nurturing all relationships
  • Find joy and purpose in your parenting journey
  • Access a supportive community available 24/7


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You'll get everything you need to thrive, including:

  • Monthly expert-led trainings on complex trauma topics
  • Bi-monthly parent support zoom calls
  • Weekly live Q&A sessions with Dr. Melody Aguayo
  • Exclusive access to our private, moderated Facebook community
  • Resource library with downloadable materials and tools

Join Our Community

Welcome to a transformative community designed specifically for parents navigating the complex world of developmental trauma. The Real Child Community is more than just a membership - it's your lifeline to expert support, practical strategies, and a compassionate community that truly understands your journey.

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The Real Child Community is your path to transforming chaos into connection, overwhelm into empowerment, and isolation into community.

 Join us today and start writing a new chapter in your family's story.

Here’s what’s inside The Real Child Community:

  • Monthly Expert-Led Trainings with Dr. Melody on trauma and adoption
  • Bi-Monthly Parent Support Zoom Calls for community and guidance
  • Weekly Live Q&A Sessions to get your questions answered in real-time
  • Private Facebook Community with 24/7 support from fellow parents
  • Extensive Resource Library

All valued at over $1000/month, but available to you for just $50/month or $500/year (save $100!). Invest in your family's future today.

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What Makes The Real Child Community Different?

Our membership stands out in the world of adoption and trauma-informed parenting support. Here's why:

Expert-Led, Experience-Backed Leadership

Comprehensive Support System

Focus on Parental Well-being

Practical, Implementable Strategies

The Real Child Community isn't just about information – it's about transformation. We're committed to empowering you with the knowledge, tools, and support you need to create the family life you've always envisioned.

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You’re Not Alone in This Journey—Real Support Is Here

In this program, we understand the unique challenges you face as an adoptive parent. We've crafted every aspect of our support to ensure you don't just manage but truly thrive in your parenting journey. Imagine the peace of mind you'll feel when you're no longer navigating this path alone but with the confidence and tools to create a nurturing and balanced home environment.



Our community has seen real transformation—families moving from constant stress to harmonious living, where every member feels supported and understood. We’re here to walk with you every step of the way.

Discover the Support Waiting for You
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Calm Emotional Storms

Gain the skills to de-escalate emotional outbursts effectively, reducing stress and creating a more peaceful home.

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Strengthen Family Bonds

Foster attachments and build stronger relationships, ensuring your child's healing journey is fully supported.

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Confident Advocacy

Become a powerful advocate for your child in school and therapy settings, ensuring they receive the support they need.

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Find Your Tribe

Connect with a supportive community of parents who understand your journey, so you never feel isolated again.

OUR GUARANTEE

You're Protected with Our 30-Day Money-Back Guarantee

We're confident that The Real Child Community will provide immense value to you and your family. We want you to feel entirely secure in your decision to join our community of resilient parents. That’s why we offer a 30-day, 100% money-back guarantee.

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Meet Dr. Melody Aguayo - Your Guide to Trauma-Informed Parenting

Hey there! I'm Dr. Melody Aguayo, and years ago, I was exactly where you are now - an overwhelmed adoptive parent, desperately seeking answers and support for my child with complex needs.



My journey began when I adopted my son and quickly realized that traditional parenting advice just wasn't cutting it. I felt unheard and invalidated by professionals who didn't understand our unique challenges. Sound familiar?


That experience lit a fire in me. I was determined to become the support I wished I'd had. So, I dove headfirst into the world of developmental trauma, pursuing my doctorate in psychology and dedicating my career to understanding and supporting families like ours.


Today, I'm not just a coach - I'm a fellow traveler on this complex parenting journey.

I've lived through the daily struggles you're facing:

  • The constant school phone calls
  • The heart-wrenching IEP meetings
  • The feeling of walking on eggshells in your own home
  • The strain on your marriage and other relationships
  • The guilt, the exhaustion, the moments of despair


But I've also discovered the immense joy and growth that can come from this journey when you have the right support and strategies.

That's why I created The Real Child Community. I wanted to provide a community where parents like us can find understanding, gain practical tools, and rediscover the joy in our parenting journey - all guided by someone who's been in the trenches.

My approach combines:

  • Extensive professional training in developmental trauma
  • Personal experience as an adoptive parent
  • A deep commitment to empowering and supporting families


I can't wait to meet you inside The Real Child Community and be part of your family's transformation story!

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Is the

Real Child Community

right for you?

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This membership is for you if you ARE:

An adoptive or foster parent struggling to understand and manage your child's complex behaviors.

Isolated in your parenting journey and longing for a community that truly understands your challenges.

Unable to benefit from traditional parenting advice

Exhausted from constantly "putting out fires" 

Open to learning and implementing new approaches 

Looking for ongoing support and education, not just a one-time workshop or course.

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This membership is NOT for you if you are:

Seeking individual therapy or crisis intervention (remember, this is not a substitute for mental health treatment).

Not open to examining and potentially changing your own parenting approaches.

Looking for quick fixes or "magic bullet" solutions.

Not comfortable sharing and learning in a group setting.

Our goal is to support families who are ready to dive deep into trauma-informed parenting strategies and commit to long-term growth and healing. If that sounds like you, we'd be honored to have you join our community.

Still not sure? We encourage you to reach out to our team with any questions. We're here to help you make the best decision for your family.

We're here to help you make the best decision for your family.

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Frequently asked questions

If you've made it this far, you know it's time for a change...

Remember, we're here to support you. If you have any other questions, please don't hesitate to reach out to our team.

Join The Real Child Community Today and Transform Your Family's Journey!

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  • I'm already stretched thin financially. Can I really afford this?

    We understand that raising a child with complex needs can be financially challenging. That's why we've priced The Real Child Community to be accessible to as many families as possible. Consider the cost of individual coaching sessions or specialized workshops - our membership provides ongoing support and resources at a fraction of that cost. Plus, with our 30-day money-back guarantee, you can try it risk-free.

  • I'm overwhelmed as it is. How much time will this program require?

    The Real Child Community is designed to fit into your busy life. While we encourage regular engagement for best results, you can participate as your schedule allows. Our resources are available 24/7, and you can catch up on trainings at your convenience. Many members find that the time invested actually saves them time in the long run by providing effective strategies that reduce daily struggles.

  • I've tried other programs before without success. How is this different?

    Unlike one-size-fits-all parenting programs, The Real Child Community is specifically tailored for families dealing with developmental trauma. Dr. Melody combines professional expertise with personal experience as an adoptive parent. The ongoing nature of our program, with regular expert support and a community of peers, sets us apart from one-off courses or workshops.

  • I'm not sure I'm ready for this. What if I'm not at the right level?

    Whether you're new to trauma-informed parenting or have been on this journey for years, The Real Child Community meets you where you are. Our content is designed to be accessible to beginners while providing depth for more experienced parents. The community aspect means you'll find support no matter where you are in your journey.

  • How much personal attention will I receive?

    While The Real Child Community is a group program, there are multiple opportunities for personalized support. These include weekly Q&A sessions, and bi-monthly support calls. Plus, our private Facebook group allows for daily interaction with Dr. Melody and other members.

  • What if I sign up and then don't have the energy to fully participate?

    We understand that parenting children with complex needs can be exhausting. That's why all our live sessions are recorded and resources are available on-demand. You can engage with the material when it works best for you. Many members find that the support and strategies they gain actually increase their energy and capacity over time.

  • Is this just for adoptive parents, or can foster parents join too?

    The Real Child Community is open to all parents and caregivers of children who have experienced developmental trauma. This includes adoptive parents, foster parents, kinship caregivers, and biological parents of children who have experienced early trauma.

  • What if it doesn't work for my family?

    Every family is unique, which is why we offer a 30-day money-back guarantee. If you find that The Real Child Community isn't the right fit for your family after giving it a fair try, we'll refund your investment, no questions asked.

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You've come this far

Now it's time to take that crucial step towards the support, community, and strategies your family needs.

Remember, your investment is protected by our 30-day money-back guarantee.

Choose the option that works best for you:

Monthly Membership

$50/month

*Terms & Conditions apply

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Monthly Expert-Led Trainings with Dr. Melody on trauma and adoption

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Bi-Monthly Parent Support Zoom Calls for community and guidance

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Weekly Live Q&A Sessions to get your questions answered in real-time

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Private Facebook Community with 24/7 support from fellow parents

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Annual Membership

$500/year

*Terms & Conditions apply

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Everything from the monthly plan plus:

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Bonus: One free 30 Minute 1-on-1 coaching session with Dr. Melody ($120 value)

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Two Months Free

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